parenting
Captured
What on earth is going on? More and more I see an obsession with “beauty” and with “self”. Captured by the appearance of self. A desire to be idealized? A desire based on appearance rather than real effort, intelligence, study, achievement or anything other than appearance and “sexuality”. What has created this obsession? Because of…
Read MoreChild Development and Identity
Childhood from birth until adulthood includes the development of identity. Initially, a secure identity requires a calm, warm, consistent, holding experience that relates to the baby and basic needs. Those needs include good nutrition, a warm, safe bed, and consistent, calm holding, love, and care that the baby can feel. A secure experience allows the…
Read MoreAnother consequence of GRIEF
A consequence of my own grief was that it shattered my own MK Ultra type programming. Suddenly I was in a reality where my government, my social structure, my friends and family no longer made any sense to me. The son I had raised died of a heroin overdose. How does this happen? How does…
Read MoreHEALTH AND HEALING IN THE NEW AGE
Health and Healing and the NEW AGE In many ways the NEW AGE movement has led to a new form of selfishness. There is a shallow approach to understanding energy and consciousness. We know that all is a reflection, and we use this information to label what we can-not possibly with our current wisdom and understanding…
Read MoreAggressive Violent Children
Let me start by saying, no one gets out of childhood without “trauma”. We could say it is a matter of degree more than an “event”. The socialization process can definitely be perceived as “traumatic”. The kind of enlightened, sensitive, resourceful, kind, deeply intelligent, and stable parenting required in today’s world is difficult to…
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