childhood sexual abuse
Self-Work
What is self-work? Self-work is working on my self in order to break bad habits or patterns of behavior. Behavior is the result of perception. Perception involves thought that is often out of our awareness. In other words thoughts are “happening” within us. Different models attribute our thoughts to different sources. Some believe your thoughts…
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What on earth is going on? More and more I see an obsession with “beauty” and with “self”. Captured by the appearance of self. A desire to be idealized? A desire based on appearance rather than real effort, intelligence, study, achievement or anything other than appearance and “sexuality”. What has created this obsession? Because of…
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We are made to heal from our trauma. Childhood sexual trauma sets us up for difficulties that include addiction and violence and a general lack of success until we can heal.
Read MoreChild Development and Identity
Childhood from birth until adulthood includes the development of identity. Initially, a secure identity requires a calm, warm, consistent, holding experience that relates to the baby and basic needs. Those needs include good nutrition, a warm, safe bed, and consistent, calm holding, love, and care that the baby can feel. A secure experience allows the…
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